THINGS YOU NEED TO WORK ON
I feel like a lot of people are struggling to find, accept and to love themselves. I mean, I'm not gonna lie. I'm one of those people but I am working on it! So I thought it would also be nice to share it to you guys.
For today's blog, I am going to talk about the things that I am currently working on and the things that I think you should also work on. I don't know who might need to hear all of these but hey, if you're struggling to figure things out then stick around cause this blog is for youuu!
Things to work on...
The first thing is to learn to accept your flaws and love yourself. If we want other people to accept us, we should learn to accept ourselves first. Truth is, not everyone's gonna like and accept us. But as long us we accept ourselves, others doesn't really matter. Love yourself in a way how you want other people to love you! We cannot ask anyone to love us; this and that way. It's just wrong. It's toxic and we will just get disappointed to those people who cannot love us the way we want to... Love yourself because no one's gonna love you the way you want to. Did you know that self love is the best type of love? Now you know.
The second thing is really important and it is to forgive your past self. Forgive yourself for the mistakes that you've done from the past. It's okay to make mistakes. It's part of growing up. It's part of life. In short, mistakes are totally normal. It's inevitable. It is important to know that whatever mistakes you've done from the past, whatever it is. It doesn't define who you are. Our mistakes doesn't define who we are. Forgive yourself for that's the only way to move on and the only way for you to be truly happy without worrying of the mistakes that you've done from the past. Also know that without those mistakes you wouldn't be who you are now. You wouldn't be as smart and as strong as you are now. So stop worrying about it.
The next thing is to not be afraid to say no. To be honest, I'm having hard time working on this one. That feeling when you badly wants to say no but you just can't cause you don't want them to talk behind your back. I don't know why but for some reason I just can't say no especially to my friends. But then I realized, no matter how nice you are, people will always have something to say. So yah, I'm working on it.
Remove toxic people in your life. We all can tell who's good and who's bad for our mental health. Remove those people who is bad for your mental health. We don't need them. Protect your peace at all cost and the only way to do that is to cut those toxic people out of your life. I've already said this before and I'm going to say this again, I don't really care if it's your friends, partner, or family. If they're sending you some negative energy cut them off. And never explain to that person why you needed to remove them because you don't owe anyone an explanation. It is also important to know that cutting or removing those toxic people doesn't makes you a bad person. Your peace is way more important than other people's feelings so don't feel bad about it.
The fifth thing is to not limit or doubt yourself. You are you're only limit but that doesn't mean you'll limit your potential. And even if people are doubting you, do not doubt yourself. Never do that. Know that you're more than what people think you are.
The last thing is to believe that you're worth it because you are! A lot of people are having rough time to see their worth and I'm no different. There are days where I am questioning myself but at the end of the day I make sure to get back and remember my worth. Which I think you should also do the same. It's not easy but it's also not impossible, yk.
And that's it for today's blog. Let me know which part is your favorite because I'm curious to know. I really hope you learned something and pls work those things for yourself and also don't forget to share this to your friends who's might be struggling to figure things out! Thank you so much for reading, I love youuu and I'll see you on my next one!! <3
